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中国年轻人的新式婚礼

Chinese Couples Choose Simpler Weddings

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Miss Bao, Mr. Lü and Sichuan couples on China's new-style weddings — small, simple, happy ceremonies. HSK 2 Chinese listening practice.

This is an HSK 2 Chinese listening episode that runs about 6 minutes. The full Mandarin script is shown with tap-for-pinyin and a line-by-line English translation, so you can listen and read at once — comprehensible input in the sense of Stephen Krashen's i+1 theory. It teaches 16 key vocabulary words such as 结婚、年轻、简单 and walks through 5 grammar patterns, each explained in English with examples. The same news story is retold at 3 difficulty levels — use the level selector above to find the version that is challenging but still understandable for you.

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说到最近中国年轻人的结婚事情,有一个很大的变化。
以前,在中国结婚是很贵的事情。
很多人要花几十万元。
他们要在很大的饭馆吃饭。
我们要请很多很多的人。
这不仅仅是两个人的事情。
这也是两个家庭的事情。
爸爸妈妈觉得这很重要。
因为这让他们觉得很有面子。
但是,现在情况不一样了。
很多年轻人开始不喜欢这样。
他们不想花那么多钱。
他们不想做给别人看。
他们想要简单的婚礼。
这不是因为他们没有钱。
这是因为他们想要真正的快乐。
他们想在这个重要的日子里做自己。
我们来看看三个真实的故事。
第一个故事关于包小姐和吕先生。
他们是一对年轻的爱人。
他们本来想听爸爸妈妈的话。
他们准备结婚。
但是,事情变得很麻烦。
女方的爸爸妈妈想要很多钱。
这叫“彩礼”。
这是中国的传统习俗。
男方要给女方家里钱。
包小姐的爸爸妈妈还想要大房子。
他们问:“你们买了房子吗?
包小姐和吕先生没有买房子。
因为他们还没有决定住在哪里。
他们都在外面工作。
爸爸妈妈听了很不高兴。
他们说:“那就不结婚了!
包小姐觉得很难过。
她觉得爸爸妈妈不理解她。
她觉得爸爸妈妈只看重钱。
所以,她做了一个决定。
她不想要那种传统的婚礼了。
她和吕先生开车去旅游。
他们去了一个很远的地方。
那个地方叫四川。
那里有很高的山。
那里有很蓝的天。
他们在那里结婚了。
没有很多客人。
只有他们两个人。
他们没有穿很贵的衣服。
他们穿着舒服的衣服。
他们在山下面拍照。
他们笑得很开心。
这才是他们想要的。
这次旅游只花了两万元。
比在饭馆吃饭便宜多了。
回到家以后,他们请朋友玩。
这也是一个小派对。
朋友们在一起说话。
大家不喝酒。
大家喝奶茶。
因为包小姐喜欢喝奶茶。
虽然很简单,但是大家都很高兴。
包小姐觉得,结婚是两个人的事。
不需要为了别人花钱。
第二个故事关于石小姐和陈先生。
他们非常喜欢音乐。
特别是摇滚音乐。
如果要结婚,就要拍照片。
在中国,拍结婚照片很贵。
而且,照片里的人看起来都一样。
大家都穿一样的衣服。
大家都做一样的动作。
石小姐觉得这很没意思。
那是假的,不是真的。
后来,朋友给了一个建议。
朋友说:“你们去音乐节吧。
音乐节有很多唱歌的人。
那里非常热闹。
石小姐觉得这个主意很好。
所以他们去了音乐节。
那天,他们穿着结婚的衣服。
他们在人群里面。
旁边有很多不认识的人。
大家都在听音乐。
大家都在跳舞。
当别人看到他们时,都很高兴。
陌生人对他们说:“祝贺你们!
大家一起唱歌。
大家一起跳舞。
摄影师给他们拍了照片。
照片里,他们笑得非常开心。
这比在照相馆拍得好多了。
因为这是真的快乐。
石小姐的爸爸妈妈看到了照片。
他们也很喜欢。
因为他们看到了女儿的笑脸。
这才是结婚最重要的事情。
第三个故事关于钱小姐。
钱小姐是一个特别的人。
她不喜欢吃肉。
她喜欢吃蔬菜。
她觉得传统的婚礼太浪费了。
很多人吃不完饭菜。
这虽然有很多钱,但是不好。
她想要一个“绿色”的婚礼。
她想要保护环境。
所以,她在一个花园里结婚。
这是一个很漂亮的花园。
她请了很多朋友。
也请了一些陌生人。
大家在一起吃蔬菜。
大家在一起说话。
这个婚礼非常便宜。
每个人只花了一百多元。
这在中国是很便宜的。
在别的饭馆,一个人要五百元。
钱小姐的爸爸妈妈没有来。
因为他们觉得这不像婚礼。
但是钱小姐不在乎。
她觉得这就是她的生活。
她和丈夫都很喜欢这样。
他们不想要很多东西。
他们不想要很多钱。
他们只想简单地生活。
他们觉得快乐比钱更重要。
这就是现在中国年轻人的想法。
这三个故事告诉我们什么呢?
这告诉我们,时代变了。
以前,结婚是为了家庭。
结婚是为了让别人看。
现在,结婚是为了自己。
年轻人开始思考一个问题。
这个问题是:“这是谁的生活?
这是我们自己的生活。
我们要建立什么样的家庭?
我们要找什么样的爱人?
这比花钱更重要。
虽然爸爸妈妈可能不理解。
虽然别人可能觉得奇怪。
但是年轻人坚持自己的选择。
他们不要几十万的婚礼。
他们要的是爱情。
他们要的是自由。
他们要的是真正的快乐。
我们刚才说的,其实是中国的新现象。
这叫“极简婚礼”。
意思就是非常简单的婚礼。
或者叫“三无婚礼”。
就是没有车队,没有接亲,没有伴郎伴娘。
这正在变成一种新的流行。
这说明中国年轻人在长大。
他们知道自己想要什么。
他们正在改变中国的传统。
这就是今天关于婚礼的故事。
English transcript reference

Speaking of recent marriage trends among young Chinese people, there is a big change.

In the past, getting married in China was a very expensive affair.

Many people had to spend hundreds of thousands of yuan.

They had to eat at very large restaurants.

We had to invite very many people.

This was not just a matter between two people.

This was also a matter between two families.

Parents felt this was very important.

Because this made them feel they had 'face' (reputation).

However, the situation is different now.

Many young people are starting to dislike this.

They don't want to spend that much money.

They don't want to do things just for others to see.

They want a simple wedding.

This is not because they don't have money.

This is because they want true happiness.

They want to be themselves on this important day.

Let's look at three real stories.

The first story is about Miss Bao and Mr. Lu.

They are a pair of young lovers.

Originally, they wanted to listen to their parents.

They prepared to get married.

However, things became very troublesome.

The woman's parents wanted a lot of money.

This is called the 'bride price' (caili).

This is a traditional Chinese custom.

The man's side has to give money to the woman's family.

Miss Bao's parents also wanted a big house.

They asked: "Have you bought a house?"

Miss Bao and Mr. Lu had not bought a house.

Because they had not yet decided where to live.

They both work away from home.

The parents were very unhappy when they heard this.

They said: "Then there will be no marriage!"

Miss Bao felt very sad.

She felt her parents didn't understand her.

She felt her parents only cared about money.

So, she made a decision.

She didn't want that kind of traditional wedding anymore.

She and Mr. Lu drove off to travel.

They went to a very faraway place.

That place is called Sichuan.

There are very high mountains there.

There is a very blue sky there.

They got married there.

There weren't many guests.

It was just the two of them.

They didn't wear expensive clothes.

They wore comfortable clothes.

They took photos at the foot of the mountain.

They smiled very happily.

This was what they really wanted.

This trip only cost twenty thousand yuan.

It was much cheaper than eating at a restaurant.

After returning home, they invited friends to hang out.

This was also a small party.

Friends talked together.

Everyone didn't drink alcohol.

Everyone drank milk tea.

Because Miss Bao likes to drink milk tea.

Although it was simple, everyone was very happy.

Miss Bao feels that marriage is a matter between two people.

There is no need to spend money for others.

The second story is about Miss Shi and Mr. Chen.

They like music very much.

Especially rock music.

If getting married, one must take photos.

In China, taking wedding photos is very expensive.

Moreover, the people in the photos all look the same.

Everyone wears the same clothes.

Everyone does the same poses.

Miss Shi felt this was very boring.

That is fake, not real.

Later, a friend gave a suggestion.

The friend said: "You guys should go to a music festival."

Music festivals have many singers.

It is very lively there.

Miss Shi thought this was a very good idea.

So they went to the music festival.

That day, they wore wedding clothes.

They were in the crowd.

There were many people they didn't know nearby.

Everyone was listening to music.

Everyone was dancing.

When others saw them, they were all very happy.

Strangers said to them: "Congratulations!"

Everyone sang together.

Everyone danced together.

A photographer took photos of them.

In the photos, they were smiling very happily.

This was much better than taking photos in a studio.

Because this was real happiness.

Miss Shi's parents saw the photos.

They also liked them very much.

Because they saw their daughter's smiling face.

This is the most important thing about getting married.

The third story is about Miss Qian.

Miss Qian is a special person.

She doesn't like to eat meat.

She likes to eat vegetables.

She feels traditional weddings are too wasteful.

Many people can't finish the food.

Although this costs a lot of money, it is not good.

She wanted a "green" wedding.

She wants to protect the environment.

So, she got married in a garden.

This is a very beautiful garden.

She invited many friends.

She also invited some strangers.

Everyone ate vegetables together.

Everyone talked together.

This wedding was very cheap.

Each person only cost a bit over one hundred yuan.

This is very cheap in China.

In other restaurants, one person costs five hundred yuan.

Miss Qian's parents did not come.

Because they felt this didn't look like a wedding.

But Miss Qian didn't care.

She felt this is her life.

She and her husband both like it this way.

They don't want many things.

They don't want a lot of money.

They just want to live simply.

They feel happiness is more important than money.

This is the mindset of young Chinese people now.

What do these three stories tell us?

This tells us that times have changed.

In the past, marriage was for the family.

Marriage was for others to see.

Now, marriage is for oneself.

Young people are starting to think about a question.

This question is: "Whose life is this?"

This is our own life.

What kind of family do we want to build?

What kind of lover do we want to find?

This is more important than spending money.

Although parents might not understand.

Although others might think it's strange.

But young people persist in their own choices.

They don't want a wedding costing hundreds of thousands.

What they want is love.

What they want is freedom.

What they want is true happiness.

What we just talked about is actually a new phenomenon in China.

This is called "minimalist wedding".

The meaning is a very simple wedding.

Or it's called "Three-No Wedding".

It means no motorcade, no bride escort, no groomsmen or bridesmaids.

This is becoming a new trend.

This shows that young Chinese people are growing up.

They know what they want.

They are changing Chinese traditions.

This is today's story about weddings.

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What vocabulary does this episode teach?

词汇
jiéhūnto get married

A common verb/noun meaning to marry or marriage. Usage: A 和 B 结婚 (A marries B).

niánqīngyoung

Adjective describing age. Often used in '年轻人' (young people).

jiǎndānsimple

Adjective meaning uncomplicated or simple in nature.

zhòngyàoimportant

Adjective used to describe something of great significance.

juédìngto decide; decision

Can be used as a verb (to make up one's mind) or a noun.

kuàilèhappy

Adjective/Noun used for happiness or joy.

zhàopiànphoto / picture

Measure word is '张' (zhāng).

huánjìngenvironment

Noun referring to surroundings or the ecological environment.

cǎilǐbetrothal gift / bride price

Cultural term. Money or gifts given by the groom's family to the bride's family before marriage.

miànziface / reputation

Cultural concept referring to one's dignity or social standing. '有面子' means to have prestige/respect.

yáogǔnrock and roll

Refers to rock music genre.

mòshēngrénstranger

People one does not know. '陌生' (unfamiliar) is HSK 5.

shèyǐngshīphotographer

Professional title for someone who takes photos.

jíjiǎnminimalist

Adjective meaning extremely simple or minimalist style.

bànláng / bànniánggroomsman / bridesmaid

Specific roles in a wedding party.

chēduìmotorcade / convoy

A line of cars, often used in traditional weddings to pick up the bride.

* beyond level超纲词

What grammar patterns appear in this episode?

语法

虽然 (suīrán) ... 但是 (dànshì) ...

A conjunction pair meaning 'Although..., but...'. It expresses a concession or contrast. Note that in Chinese, both conjunctions are often present, whereas in English you usually only use one.

虽然很简单,但是大家都很高兴。

这虽然有很多钱,但是不好。

虽然爸爸妈妈可能不理解。

A + 比 (bǐ) + B + Adjective (+ Complement)

The standard structure for making comparisons. It means 'A is more [adjective] than B'.

比在饭馆吃饭便宜多了。

这比在照相馆拍得好多了。

他们觉得快乐比钱更重要。

Verb + 得 (de) + Adjective/Complement

The complement of degree/state. It follows a verb to describe *how* an action is performed or the state resulting from it.

他们笑得很开心。

照片里,他们笑得非常开心。

这比在照相馆拍得好多了。

Subject + 让 (ràng) + Object + Verb/Adjective

A causative structure meaning 'to let', 'to make', or 'to allow' someone to do or feel something.

因为这让他们觉得很有面子。

结婚是为了让别人看。

Verb + 不 + 完 (wán)

A potential complement structure indicating inability to finish an action. '完' means 'to finish'.

很多人吃不完饭菜。

Proper nouns

专有名词
包小姐Bāo xiǎojiěMiss Bao吕先生Lǚ xiānshengMr. Lü四川SìchuānSichuan (a province in southwest China)石小姐Shí xiǎojiěMiss Shi陈先生Chén xiānshengMr. Chen钱小姐Qián xiǎojiěMiss Qian

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