爱与谎言：人工智能时代的浪漫骗局

According to the latest statistics, in just the last year alone, these so-called "romance scams" caused Americans to lose a staggering three billion dollars.

This three billion dollars is likely just the tip of the iceberg, because after realizing they have been scammed, many victims often choose silence out of shame and do not report the crime to relevant authorities.

Hidden behind these staggering numbers is a scam model known as "pig butchering"; while the term sounds very cruel, it accurately describes the methods used by scammers.

Just like raising a pig, scammers spend a vast amount of time and energy establishing a deep emotional connection with the victim to gain their trust, which is called "fattening the pig."

Once the victim completely lowers their guard, invests real feelings, or even starts planning a shared future, the scammer begins the "butchering," which means repeatedly inducing the victim to invest or transfer money under various pretexts until every last penny is drained.

Worryingly, from 2020 to 2024, these scams have swept away over 75 billion dollars in wealth globally.

And now, with the rapid development of artificial intelligence technology, these scams are undergoing a terrifying upgrade, becoming easier to execute, lower in cost, and higher in profit.

Previously, if an overseas scammer wanted to defraud an American, they at least needed to be proficient in English and able to understand complex cultural metaphors and emotional expressions.

But now, researchers at the Harvard Kennedy School point out that AI-driven real-time translation tools have completely shattered this language barrier.

This means scammers no longer need to spend years learning a foreign language, and their range of potential prey has instantly expanded millions of times over.

Artificial intelligence hasn't just solved the language problem; it has fundamentally changed the scale of fraud, becoming a "force multiplier" in the hands of scammers.

In the past, a scammer could likely only maintain "romantic relationships" with a few victims at a time, because sustaining such fake personas required immense energy and memory.

But now, with the help of AI tools, a single person can simultaneously run twenty or more fraudulent conversations via scripts without revealing a single flaw.

Cybersecurity expert Chris Niehuis mentioned when analyzing this phenomenon that AI-assisted fraud is not only more profitable than traditional methods but also extremely cheap and simple to operate.

On the dark side of the internet, the so-called "dark web," criminals can even purchase complete "romance scam toolkits" just like buying ordinary software.

These toolkits have everything one could need, including services equipped with 24/7 customer support, user review systems, and tiered pricing packages.

Even more frightening is that these toolkits provide pre-built fake personas with photos generated by AI that leave no duplicate traces on the internet, making them impossible to expose via traditional "reverse image search."

The toolkits even contain detailed conversation scripts for every stage of the scam, as well as deepfake tools used to forge video calls.

As experts have said, the technical barrier to committing this crime has essentially vanished; anyone with malicious intent who is willing to spend money can immediately become a high-level emotional scammer.

Although we might wonder, with the development of AI, will scammers eventually "automate" themselves out of a job?

In reality, the current situation is more of an "augmentation" rather than a complete "replacement."

Often, the one typing on the keyboard on the other side of the screen is still a living, breathing person, but their plight is often lamentable.

It is estimated that in some scam centers in Southeast Asia, at least 220,000 people are trapped; they are victims of human trafficking themselves, forced to commit fraud under the threat of violence.

For the criminal syndicates controlling these centers, introducing AI technology simply means they can achieve higher profit margins with lower labor costs.

Although AI is not yet perfect at simulating human emotions, its speed of evolution is astonishing.

We must remember that when AlphaGo defeated the world Go champion in 2016, it shocked all of humanity, and the current iteration speed of AI technology far exceeds that time.

Experts predict that perhaps within a few years, or even sooner, we will face AI scammers with thought patterns completely different from humans, possessing unimaginable persuasive power.

So, why do people fall into these traps so easily?

This actually has nothing to do with technology, but rather with human nature.

Romance scams are unique because they attack the most core human needs: love and a sense of belonging.

The U.S. Surgeon General officially declared in 2023 that we are in the midst of a "loneliness epidemic," the health hazards of which are equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

This social isolation is closely linked to heart disease, dementia, depression, and even premature death.

Reportedly, one in six people worldwide feels lonely, and these souls yearning for connection are the perfect prey in the eyes of scammers.

Scammers usually use AI-generated opening lines to cast a wide net, and once someone responds, they employ a "love bombing" strategy, which involves intensely expressing love and attention within a short period.

Once the victim is convinced they are in a romantic relationship, the scammer begins demanding money through untraceable methods, such as gift cards, wire transfers, or cryptocurrency.

They usually fabricate various sudden crises, such as illness, business cash flow problems, or accidents, exploiting the victim's sympathy and anxiety to force urgent transfers.

Once they achieve their goal, or the victim has been drained dry, they might disappear immediately, known as "ghosting," or continue fabricating reasons for a second harvest.

Current AI romance scams further utilize deepfake video calls, "cheapfake" profiles on social media, and voice cloning technology.

Cybersecurity experts point out that these scams are extremely dangerous because they exploit "love," unlike phishing which exploits "urgency" or tech support scams which exploit "fear."

When a person falls in love, they often lose their reason; even if their intuition tells them something is wrong, they choose to ignore it.

The elderly population is usually the primary target of such scams because life changes like retirement or widowhood exacerbate their social isolation.

Scammers exploit this to make victims feel understood and cared for, thereby swindling them out of their life savings or even the real estate they rely on for retirement.

However, we must not mistakenly believe that only the elderly fall for this; in fact, anyone can become a victim.

Although Gen Z are digital natives who grew up in an internet environment, data shows that their likelihood of encountering online fraud is actually three times that of the older generation.

This is because young people spend more time online and have more opportunities to encounter potential risks; while the amount they lose may not be as much as the elderly, the frequency of being scammed is very high.

There is another heartbreaking fact: once a person becomes a scam victim, they are very likely to be targeted again.

Scammers build detailed profiles of victims and even share these lists within criminal networks, known as "sucker lists."

This is not a moral failing of the victim, but a psychological trap carefully designed by criminals.

Moreover, the recovery rate for such scams is extremely low; about 15% of Americans have lost money to online romance scams, but only one-quarter of them are able to recover all their losses.

Romance scams often breed in shame and secrecy, and victims are sometimes even blackmailed, with scammers threatening to expose their private information if they reveal it to family or friends.

Currently, the academic community has also begun to pay attention to this phenomenon, and researchers are exploring how to use AI itself to counter these AI-driven scams.

For example, by detecting scam patterns, predicting emerging strategies, and building stronger community support systems to help victims.

The society we live in is becoming increasingly accustomed to "human-machine romance."

In the movie "Her," the male protagonist falls in love with an AI operating system; the film is set in 2025, and it now seems this prophecy is not far off.

Nowadays, many AI chatbots are designed specifically to attract users, charging for deeper, more personalized interactions through a "freemium" model.

Although these so-called "companion bots" are ostensibly AI, they collect user data for targeted advertising; to some extent, isn't this also a form of exploiting loneliness to extract resources?

In this digital age full of uncertainty, we must take measures to protect our hearts and wallets.

The simplest and most effective rule is: absolutely do not send money to anyone you have not met in real life.

Although this rule sounds like a cliché, it can stop the vast majority of romance scams.

Additionally, if you meet a seemingly perfect partner online, you can request an impromptu video call.

During the call, ask the other person to perform random actions, such as touching their nose, spinning around, or picking up a specific object nearby.

While current deepfake technology is powerful, it often reveals flaws when handling such "unscripted" real-time actions, such as facial distortion or unnatural movements.

If the photos you receive look too perfect, you can use reverse image search tools to see if these photos were stolen from other websites.

At the same time, using a VPN to hide your real location is also a good habit, because scammers often track users' locations and customize scam scripts based on the city or country they are in.

If misfortune truly strikes, reporting it to law enforcement agencies and banks as early as possible is crucial, as this can increase the slim hope of recovering funds.

Finally, I want to say to anyone who might be going through this: no matter how lonely you feel right now, or how embarrassed you feel about being scammed, please remember this is not your fault.

What scammers are best at is stripping people of hope; do not let them take away your last shred of hope as well.

This Valentine's Day, protect your heart, not just from being broken, but from being exploited.