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害怕

to be afraid; to fear

verbneutral
hài4th tone
4th tone

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Pinyin
hàipà
Part of speech
verb
Level
HSK 3
Strokes
18
Register
neutral

Stroke order for 害怕

害怕 is written with 18 strokes (: 10, : 8). The animation replays automatically.

What does 害怕 mean?

害怕 (hàipà) is a stative verb meaning 'to be afraid of' or 'to fear,' describing the emotional state of fear rather than a single startled moment.

It takes a direct object (害怕狗 — afraid of dogs) or a verb phrase (害怕一个人睡 — afraid to sleep alone). Two things differ from English: first, 害怕 is a verb, not an adjective, so you say 我很害怕 ('I am very afraid'), with acting like 'is'; second, English splits 'afraid,' 'scared,' and 'frightened' across many words, but 害怕 covers all everyday uses. For the sudden jolt of being startled, native speakers use (xià) or 吓一跳; for deep, lasting dread, the formal 恐惧 (kǒngjù) fits better.

Note: Works in both spoken and written contexts. For stronger, more dramatic fear, use 恐惧 (kǒngjù); for being startled, use (xià).

Character by character

hàiharm; to harm
+
to fear; afraid
=
害怕

Memory hook: 害 (harm) + 怕 (fear) — the harm-fear: afraid that something bad will happen.

Example sentences

我小时候很害怕黑。

Wǒ xiǎo shíhou hěn hàipà hēi.

When I was little, I was very afraid of the dark.

spoken

不要害怕,我在这儿。

Búyào hàipà, wǒ zài zhèr.

Don't be afraid, I'm right here.

spoken

他害怕自己说错话。

Tā hàipà zìjǐ shuō cuò huà.

He's afraid of saying the wrong thing.

neutral

很多人都害怕看牙医。

Hěn duō rén dōu hàipà kàn yáyī.

A lot of people are afraid of going to the dentist.

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Common phrases with 害怕

很害怕hěn hàipàvery afraid
害怕狗hàipà gǒuafraid of dogs
害怕一个人hàipà yí ge rénafraid to be alone
不要害怕búyào hàipàdon't be afraid
感到害怕gǎndào hàipàto feel afraid

Synonyms

is the shorter, more colloquial version. 我怕狗 and 我害怕狗 both mean 'I'm afraid of dogs,' but sounds more casual and is more common in everyday speech. 害怕 is slightly more emphatic and complete.

恐惧kǒngjù

恐惧 is formal/written, describing deep, lasting dread or terror. Use it in essays, news, or psychology contexts (对未来的恐惧 — fear of the future). 害怕 is the everyday word for normal fear.

担心dānxīn

担心 is 'to worry about,' a forward-looking concern about a possible bad outcome. 害怕 is being scared right now of something. 担心孩子生病 (worried the child will get sick) vs 害怕打针 (afraid of getting a shot).

Don't confuse 害怕 with

xià

means 'to startle / scare' — the sudden jolt. 吓我一跳 ('you scared me / made me jump'). 害怕 is the ongoing emotional state of being afraid, not a momentary scare.

害羞hàixiū

Same first character , but 害羞 means 'shy / embarrassed,' a social emotion. 害怕 is fear of harm or danger. 她见到陌生人会害羞 (she gets shy around strangers), not 害怕.

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