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听劝

tīng quàn

In English

open to advice / takes feedback

Illustration of 听劝 — Willing to actually take strangers' advice. Used both as a request ("听劝" = tell me honestly) and as praise for a creator who changed something after comments.
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Updated July 2026

What does 听劝 mean?

听劝 (tīng quàn) means open to advice / takes feedback in internet Chinese slang. Willing to actually take strangers' advice. Used both as a request ("听劝" = tell me honestly) and as praise for a creator who changed something after comments. Literally, it means "listen to advice".

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听劝, tīng quàn — to listen to advice. On Xiaohongshu it is practically a genre. Post your haircut, write 听劝, and strangers tell you the truth. 本人听劝,求个发型建议. Then you actually do what they said and post the result. Crowdsourcing your own face.

Example

本人听劝,求个发型建议。

Běnrén tīng quàn, qiú ge fàxíng jiànyì.

I'm open to advice — any suggestions for a haircut?

Where 听劝 comes from

On Xiaohongshu it is close to a genre: put 听劝 on the cover of your post and you are formally inviting strangers to tell you the truth about your hair, your outfit, your flat. Chinese users turned out to be good enough at it that foreigners started arriving to ask for the same treatment.

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