Updated July 2026
What does 爱你老己 mean?
爱你老己 (ài nǐ lǎo jǐ) means love yourself (said goofily) in gen-z Chinese slang. A deliberately garbled way of saying "love yourself". The scrambled wording keeps a sincere sentiment from sounding preachy. Literally, it means "love your old self".
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爱你自己 means love yourself, which is sincere and slightly preachy. So the internet scrambled it into 爱你老己, ài nǐ lǎo jǐ. Same meaning, goofier delivery. 别管别人怎么说，爱你老己. Breaking the phrase slightly is what lets people say something earnest without cringing.
Example
别管别人怎么说，爱你老己。
Bié guǎn biérén zěnme shuō, ài nǐ lǎo jǐ.
Never mind what anyone says — love yourself.
Where 爱你老己 comes from
A deliberate garbling of 爱你自己, "love yourself", with 老己 standing in for 自己. Breaking the phrase slightly is what lets people say something sincere without sounding like a poster on a wall.
Related slang
Raising a glass to yourself for surviving something hard or hitting a small private win. Can be earnest or knowingly melodramatic.
Composure under pressure — handling things calmly and treating yourself decently instead of tensing up. Praise for someone who does not look like they are gripping the wheel.
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