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社恐

社交恐惧shè kǒng

In English

socially anxious / socially awkward

Illustration of 社恐 — Social anxiety — dreading small talk, parties, or phone calls. Used loosely and half-jokingly. Its opposite is 社牛, a social butterfly.
Classic · Mainstream, still used dailyliterally: social fear

Updated July 2026

What does 社恐 mean?

社恐 (社交恐惧, shè kǒng) means socially anxious / socially awkward in everyday Chinese slang. Social anxiety — dreading small talk, parties, or phone calls. Used loosely and half-jokingly. Its opposite is 社牛, a social butterfly. Literally, it means "social fear".

Opposite / pairs with

社牛shè niúa social butterfly, totally at ease with anyone

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Dread small talk, parties, even answering the phone? You might be 社恐, shè kǒng — socially scared. Used half-jokingly for everyday introverts. 让我当众发言?我社恐犯了. The fearless opposite is 社牛, a social bull who chats up anyone.

Example

让我当众发言?我社恐犯了。

Ràng wǒ dāngzhòng fāyán? Wǒ shèkǒng fàn le.

Speak in public? My social anxiety is flaring up.

What 社恐 goes with

重度社恐zhòngdù shèkǒngseverely socially anxious
社恐犯了shèkǒng fàn lemy social anxiety kicked in
社牛shè niúa social butterfly (opposite)

Where 社恐 comes from

Clipped from 社交恐惧症 (social phobia). Young people adopted it for everyday introversion, spawning the opposite 社牛.

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