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舔狗

tiǎn gǒu

In English

simp / doormat

Illustration of 舔狗 — Someone who debases themselves for a crush who doesn't reciprocate — endlessly attentive, endlessly ignored. A simp.
Declining · Fading but still aliveliterally: licking dog

Updated July 2026

What does 舔狗 mean?

舔狗 (tiǎn gǒu) means simp / doormat in dating Chinese slang. Someone who debases themselves for a crush who doesn't reciprocate — endlessly attentive, endlessly ignored. A simp. Literally, it means "licking dog".

Opposite / pairs with

海王hǎi wánga player who strings many along — the inverse of a simp

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A 30-second take on 舔狗 — what it means, where it came from, and how to use it.

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The 舔狗, tiǎn gǒu — the licking dog — is the person endlessly devoted to a crush who just isn't interested. 别当舔狗了,她根本不喜欢你. There's even a warning: 舔到最后一无所有. Simp all the way, end up with nothing.

Example

别当舔狗了,她根本不喜欢你。

Bié dāng tiǎn gǒu le, tā gēnběn bù xǐhuan nǐ.

Stop simping — she just isn't into you.

What 舔狗 goes with

舔狗日记tiǎngǒu rìjìa simp's diary
舔到最后一无所有tiǎn dào zuìhòu yìwúsuǒyǒusimp till you end up with nothing

Where 舔狗 comes from

A crude image of a dog licking up to its owner, naming the self-abasing pursuer in a one-sided romance. Still used, past its viral peak.

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